@benoit, also has a section on 〜さん vs 〜くん vs no honorific.

Not explained in the video, but if she starts calling you あなた it's *not* because she's being rude... that's actually the top level of intimacy: what a wife calls a husband!

@jeeves, ね?

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@codewiz I'm definitely guilty of using あなた too much at Japanese conversation groups. Yeah, it is kind of weird that あなた is both extremely distant and used for a wife talking to her husband.

@jeeves This partially explains all the rituals with the business cards at work and rounds of self-introductions in social meetups.

You have to show that you're making an effort to memorize the names of the people around you.

@jeeves I fail at memorizing names pretty badly.

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